Though I did hear back from my great Tuesday night date, Scott, on Wednesday via text message saying “See you soon?” – I haven’t heard from him since. Is it too soon for me to be wondering? Do I need to find a hobby? Or maybe just another date…I shouldn’t be putting all of my figurative eggs in one basket.
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I asked a straight male friend last night what he thought about my situation, and he said that it definitely sounded a little weird and off. He said that if he liked a girl, he’d make sure to make a plan right away. Oh well. I guess I have to go back to the “easy come, easy go” mindset. Sigh. I just don’t get it. We had a great date, he even went so far as to kiss me (twice!) and then text me the next day. I mean, yes, anything could have happened. Maybe he met his Ms. Right on Thursday night. Anything is possible. Who knows? But I really liked him…I’m not giving up completely, but I guess I’m going to have to go back to the drawing board and fill up my dating calendar so I can get my mind off of it.
I’m over OKCupid.com by the way. I check that site often as they have an iPhone app (makes it handy) and I think because it is a free site, there are a lot of random-pants losers and possible creeps on it. If you think about it, why would a man have to make any kind of commitment on a free site? No wonder it’s so popular! Commitment and men are like opposing ends of a magnet – never the twain shall meet… ugh, I sound so negative. I have to change that mind-set right away. Negativity is just so unattractive!
UPDATE: I just got a text message from Scott! He wants to know if I’m free at all next week! Hooray! Looks like I’ve got another Tuesday night date!
